this is Not your
mama's marriage
(Whether you've been together 2 years, or 20)
Culturally-Focused Coaching for Couples ready to
Break Old Patterns &
Build Your New Legacy
READY FOR OUR RENAISSANCE
IT'S TIME TO BREAK UP WITH THE OLD VERSION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP...
...so you can build something better.
- Walking on eggshells, waiting for the "right" time - or the "right" way - to bring up how you’re feeling or what you need
- Convincing yourself that "this is enough" when deep down, you know it’s not
- Worrying that the attraction, connection, or intimacy has faded forever
- Feeling unheard, misunderstood or dismissed in repetitive arguments, struggling to figure out a real solution to your disagreement that last longer than the weekend
- Pretending everything’s fine while resentment quietly builds between you
- Struggling to forgive after trust has been broken, feeling like you’ll never fully heal from the betrayal and your relationship will never feel great again
WHAT IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP COULD FEEL AMAZING - FOR BOTH OF YOU?
When you’re ready to move beyond the surface - to go deeper and uncover what’s really holding your relationship back - you can get to the root of what's causing the fracture,
and rebuild something better, together.
Your ability to understand us, and get to our actual issue in 5 mins, through a screen & across an ocean is insane. I'll admit I was super skeptical, as T told you, but a year & a half later - I can say I was completely wrong.
- T.K.
It's crazy to think how far we've come from where we were. I didn't think we were going to make it. The biggest change for us was setting our Relationship Vision and doing our Relationship SWOT. I think we just realized that we actually COULD change, we just needed to do the work. Thank you so much, Tanya. - W.B.
Client Love
EVERY STRUGGLE HAS A STORY.
Unresolved pain from past experiences—together or apart
Cultural expectations around roles, beliefs, or marriage
Deeply ingrained ways of handling (or avoiding) conflict
Most couples try to fix their relationship by focusing on the symptoms:
The fights that spiral out of control
The distance that feels impossible to close
The betrayal that shattered your trust
The routines that have replaced the romance
Here, we dig deeper...
we uncover the WHY at the root of your frustration & pain.
When you understand why your relationship feels stuck, you can finally start to change how you move forward - together.
Escalating arguments, betrayals of trust, days of silence & disconnection don't come from nowhere.
Whether you’ve been together 2 yrs or 20, the challenges you’re facing today are shaped by everything you’ve both lived through — individually and as a couple.
Finally have the hard conversations without spiraling into the same repetitive arguments.
Learn how to communicate with clarity & compassion so you both feel heard - and can finally move forward.
ARGUE LESS & UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER MORE
Whether it’s old wounds you’ve carried for years or recent pain from a betrayal, fight, or feeling unseen, we’ll address it together.
Create the space to heal, rebuild trust, and move forward with more security & understanding.
HEAL FROM PAST OR PRESENT HURT
No more feeling like you're working against each other.
We'll strengthen your partnership, align your priorities & create joint goals that actually feel good for both of you - so you're moving forward together, not pulling in different directions.
finally feel like you're on the same team, working toward joint goals
Build a relationship aligned with your values.
This isn’t about living out someone else’s idea of love, or trying to get back to what 'used to be'. It’s about building a relationship that reflects who you both are - and one you’re proud to model for the next generation.
CREATE A PARTNERSHIP YOU'RE PROUD OF
Imagine this...
the remixed relationship provides coaching that honors your culture, values, and the complexities of modern relationships - helping you build a partnership that reflects everything you both are individually, while bringing you closer together.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP, REIMAGINED.
no matter how long you've been together,
we build a bridge from where you are now, to where you want to go.
Every relationship has challenges.
Some are caused by stuff that hasn't been processed from your past - and some from stuff that's built over time between the two of you that remains unresolved.
But with the right guidance & approach - whether you're newly engaged or becoming empty-nesters - you can create a partnership that works for who you both are now and what you each want for the future.
REPAIR PAST PAIN and break free from resentment, so you can move forward without old wounds running the show
REIGNITE THE CONNECTION & INTIMACY that's been buried under stress, responsibilities & the busy-ness of daily life
REDEFINE HOW YOU COMMUNICATE, so tough conversations actually feel productive, instead of turning into another exhausting fight
REBUILD A PARTNERSHIP that's rooted in respect, appreciation, alignment & mutual effort - one that feels good for both you now, and in the future
REIMAGINE OUR RELATIONSHIP
THIS ISN'T RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
- IT'S A PROVEN PROCESS THAT WORKS.
Your relationship struggles didn’t start yesterday. We trace them back to childhood, culture, and past experiences to understand how they’re shaping your relationship dynamics today.
we don't just treat the symptoms, we go the source
WE INCLUDE YOUR CULTURAL sTORY
Whether you're from down the street or across the world from each other, your unique cultural dynamics often get overlooked in traditional therapy. Here, we honor them - no over-explaining, no justifying - just real solutions that fit your life.
Understanding your problems isn't enough. You need tools to actually fix them - ones that work for you. In RENAISSANCE, you'll get realistic, practical strategies to improve communication, rebuild trust & reconnect in ways that feel natural & sustainable for you both.
RENAISSANCE isn't about SURFACE-LEVEL FIXES.
It's about CREATING THE CHANGE YOU NEED, FOR THE RELATIONSHIP YOU BOTH WANT.
You've tried the books, the podcasts & sent the TikToks.
You've had the late night "we need to talk" conversations & maybe even sat through some therapy sessions.
But nothing seems to stick for long.
who want more than
To 'just make it work'
we focus on practical change, not just emotional insight
Here, we don't do generic tips, or one-size-fits all solutions.
You get a structured, actionable framework tailored to your relationship's specific needs, so you're not just being fed information - you're actually implementing change.
say yes to your renaissance
Better Relationships Require Better Tools.
FOR couples in intercultural relationships -
Reignite EMOTIONAL CONNECTION:
Bring back the closeness, peace, warmth & appreciation you've been craving
In RENAISSANCE, you don’t just talk about your relationship problems - you learn specific skills to overcome them.
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R.E.B.U.I.L.D
Establish CLEAN COMMUNICATION:
Learn how to express yourselves according to your inherent styles, but in a way that prevents escalating arguments, defensiveness & misunderstanding
Break the CONFLICT CYCLE:
Recognize your conflict patterns, your 'gridlocked' issues, and learn how to repair quickly instead of letting resentment build.
Integrate SHARED GROWTH & VISION:
Build a relationship that keeps evolving with you, and learn how to keep realigning your vision for your future
Understand each other's INNER WORLDS:
Identify and honor each other's backgrounds, beliefs, and emotional needs.
LEARN HOW TO LOVE (Again & Again):
Move beyond just staying together - start actively choosing each other, every day
Design a RELATIONSHIP THAT LASTS:
Turn these shifts into long-term habits so your relationship keeps growing stronger.
READY TO REBUILD
relationship results from renaissance
CoupleGoals
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We were both so frustrated and feeling really disconnected, like there almost was no point in staying together other than our kids.
Tanya helped us understand the cultural beliefs fueling our arguments, and we spent a lot of time building ground rules for our relationship - something we never had. Now we can actually talk about hard stuff without it turning into an argument and without us feeling disconnected for days afterwards.
Even our kids have mentioned the difference they feel in the house.
R. P.
RENAISSSANCE PROGRAM
We didn't think we could recover from infidelity, it felt impossible. But the solo sessions were a game changer. They allowed us to both process separately and then bring that to the couples sessions. It helped us be able to truly hear and understand each other and slowly we have been able to build back the trust and connection we never thought we could have again.
J.B.
RENAISSANCE PROGRAM
I'm happy that I'm more confident in myself and able to open a part of my mind that had been restricted. I think I'm more romantic now and enjoy looking at what my partner brings instead of what she doesn’t. I am able to think about myself first, fight for what I want in a peaceful way, something that was so hard for me because I wanted to please others first.
E.S.
RENAISSANCE PROGRAM
IS THIS YOU?
Simple communication keeps turning into the same fight. You both want to fix things, but every conversation seems to go sideways.
Trust has been broken, and you don’t know how to rebuild it. Whether it’s betrayal, secrecy, or a slow breakdown over time, you're unsure of how to - or whether you can - move forward.
You’re stuck in the same exhausting arguments. The issues never really get solved, and you both walk away feeling unheard, frustrated, or distant.
You love each other, but it feels like something’s missing. The emotional or physical connection isn’t what it used to be, and you’re not sure how to get it back.
You feel like roommates, handling the responsibilities of everyday life, but the passion & excitement has faded, and you want to feel like a couple again.
Cultural & family differences are impacting your relationship. Family expectations, different upbringings, or conflicting values keep causing major disruptions.
You want to stay together - but you need to figure out how. You’re willing to do the work, but you need the right support and tools to make real change happen.
RENAISSANCE is for couples who are ready to do the work - not to just stay together, but to build something better.
RENAISSANCE gives you space to do both.
Because you can't change your relationship, without also changing yourselves.
Here, you get the tools to grow individually and together.
Because REAL, LASTING CHANGE is only possible when each of you do the work from the INSIDE OUT.
SOLO COACHING TO EXPLORE WHAT'S GOING ON WITH YOU - and
COUPLES COACHING TO WORK ON STRENGTHENING US.
a unique, transformative hybrid coaching approach that accElerates your progress & reduces relationship relapse.
Getting more clear on your own needs, patterns & triggers
This Means...
Working through conflict & challenges in real-time, and having both personal and joint space for the process
Accelerating your progress because you're working on yourself while working on the relationship
Having private space & support to express what's hard to say in couples sessions
Feeling supported equally - individually, and as a couple
Hey, I'm Tanya!
and i get what you're going through...
Relationships are messy - especially when culture, history, and expectations collide. I know because I’ve lived it.
A 10-year marriage that ended after we waited too long to get help. A tough divorce. And then, a second chance at love - this time, with a relationship coach in our corner, helping us build intentionally from the start.
For over 27 years, I’ve navigated interracial & interfaith marriage, divorce, remarriage, blended families, and raising 2 multiracial kids from 2 different relationships - all while learning firsthand what it actually takes (and doesn't) for a partnership to work.
Now, as a Certified Life & Relationship Coach with training from The Gottman Institute, and in Relational Life Therapy & Positive Intelligence, plus hundreds of hours coaching couples, I help people like you stop repeating old patterns in your relationship, so you can build something better.
MORE OF MY STORY
Here, you don’t have to over-explain your culture, communication styles, or family dynamics - I already get it. And I know how to help you create a relationship that fits who you both are now.
Letting go of cultural "shoulds" - so old roles & rules don’t run your relationship.
your cultural story shapes YOUR LOVE STORY - AND THAT MATTERS.
This Means...
Handling your differences with respect - so you understand each other, even when you see things differently.
Setting boundaries that protect your relationship - so outside opinions don’t dictate how you build your life together.
Here, we don't ask you to leave your culture at the door, or overlook it in the process.
In RENAISSANCE, we work to honor what serves you, and release what doesn't - so you can build a relationship that reflects you both.
Breaking unhealthy patterns - so you don’t repeat the struggles you grew up watching.
Redefining love on your terms—so your relationship reflects what actually works for both of you - for where you are right now
the way you love, communicate & resolve conflict is deeply influenced by your upbringing, cultural beliefs & past experiences.
- 1 x 90-min Relationship Revelations Couples Coaching Intake + Interview
- 20 x 60-min Transformative Couples Coaching Sessions
- Introduction & Implementation of the 7C Compass signature framework
- Personalized Individual + Relationship-Building Thought Work + Activities
THE LOGISTICS
- Positive Intelligence (PQ) Saboteur Assessment & Evaluation
- 2 x 15-20 min SOS Calls - Mini-sessions to address anything major or time-sensitive that comes up in between main sessions
- Program Workbook for Personal & Couples Work
- Private Portal with Forever Access
READY TO INVEST IN OUR FUTURE
COUPLES ONLY
Pay in Full & Payment Plan Options Available
$5000
SOLO & COUPLES
Pay in Full & Payment Plan Options Available
$6000
- 1 x 90-min Relationship Revelations Couples Coaching Intake + Interview
- 6 x 60-min Private Solo Sessions Each
- 20 x 60-min Transformative Couples Coaching Sessions
- Introduction & Implementation of the 7C Compass signature framework
- Personalized Individual + Relationship-Building Thought Work + Activities
Break the cycles that kept you stuck. Recognize the patterns that weren’t serving you, and replace them with ones that actually work.
Know what actually works for your relationship. No more trial and error - just real tools and strategies that fit who you both are & how you want to grow together.
Trust each other in a new way. Whether you’re rebuilding after betrayal or strengthening the foundation - trust is a constant, not a source of conflict.
Feel like you’re on the same team again. Replace resentment & frustration with real partnership, shared goals, and more support.
Rebuild emotional & physical intimacy. Get back the connection, closeness & chemistry that’s been missing - and have the tools to keep it strong.
Talk without fighting. Handle tough conversations with clarity and confidence instead of spiraling into the same exhausting arguments.
THIS IS WHERE YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP BEGINS.
READY FOR A RENEWED RELATIONSHIP
The distance, the resentment, the same fights on repeat - none of that has to be your story.
MAKE IT WORTH IT
Because a great relationship isn’t just about staying -
it’s about building something
worth staying for.
Your relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck.
RENAISSANCE is your chance to finally create the relationship you both want - one where you're seen, understood & actually happy INDIVIDUALLY and TOGETHER.
answered...
Your Questions,
Very common - but as long as they're willing to show up, I've seen almost 100% of resistant partners open up to the process, especially in SOLO Sessions. It's also natural for one partner's shifts in behavior to create a huge impact on the overall progress in the relationship.
Sometimes all it takes is meeting each other & realizing that this journey takes work yes, and can be uncomfortable - but I also do my best to make it a relatable & comfortable a process
WHAT IF WE'RE NOT MARRIED? OR MARRIED 20+ YEARS?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
RENAISSANCE isn’t about a legal status - it’s about your relationship. Whether you're dating, engaged, newly married, or have been together for decades, the real question is: Do you want a stronger, healthier, more connected relationship? If the answer is yes, RENAISSANCE can help you.
What if we don’t identify as an intercultural couple?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
No problem! While RENAISSANCE is uniquely designed to help couples navigate cultural dynamics, every relationship has its own unique mix of backgrounds, beliefs & personal histories. If you want to break old patterns, communicate better, and build a stronger partnership, this program will meet you where you are - no matter if you're from down the street or across the world from each other.
WHERE CAN WE EXPECT TO BE AT THE END OF RELATIONSHIP RENAISSANCE?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
More connected, more secure & actually excited about your relationship again. You’ll have real tools, better communication, and a clear understanding of how to keep your relationship strong moving forward.
Information isn’t transformation. Books and TikToks can be great, but they’re one-size-fits-all solutions that without the right guidance, are hard to apply. In RENAISSANCE, you get personalized strategies tailored to YOUR relationship, not just general advice.
Do we have to be in crisis to do this?
Not at all. But it's ok if you are. You're in the right place, regardless.
Some couples come in feeling stuck, others want to strengthen their connection before things get worse. The best time to work on your relationship is before it feels impossible to heal - but if you're in a crisis, we can handle that too. Whether you're navigating a breaking point or just need a reset, RENAISSANCE meets you where you are.
We work on the dynamics between you, so you both feel heard, valued & supported.
WHAT ARE YOU CREDENTIALS, TANYA? WHAT MAKES YOU A GOOD COACH FOR US?
I've walked the path you're on - navigating intercultural relationships, marriage, divorce & blended families. And I have been a client, as well as a coach.
With over 27 years of personal experience, as well as a Life Coaching Certification and training from The Gottman Institute, Relational Life Institute, and in Positive Intelligence, I blend professional training, lived experience & hundreds of hours coaching couples - helping you navigate your unique situation & build a new relationship that works for both of you.
All sessions are held virtually & confidentially via video call, so you can join from anywhere in the world. I work with clients across multiple countries & time zones, and offer flexible scheduling options to accommodate different locations. Whether you're in the same home, different cities, or even different countries, we make it work.
RENAISSANCE isn’t just about fixing problems - it’s about building a relationship that actually feels good to be in. One where you both feel heard, valued, and connected.
✔ A proven 3-phase framework designed for long-term results
✔ Hybrid coaching for both individual & relationship growth
✔ Tools and strategies you’ll use for a lifetime, not just a quick fix
✔ A trained professional who’s lived these experiences and knows how to guide you to lasting change
I don’t accept insurance, as coaching is different from therapy, but I do offer flexible payment plans.
Coaching is an investment in your relationship, your happiness, and your future together - and one that pays off for years to come (And costs a LOT less than unhappiness, disconnection & divorce. Trust me, I know!)
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