THE REAL YOU - finally FREE.
START YOUR RESET JOURNEY
gain the clarity you want &
take the steps you need, to
create the LIFE That you deserve.
(and secretly dream of)
you'RE TIRED OF PLAYING A ROLE & are READY TO JUST BE YOU...
You've checked all the boxes, done what you 'should' do, and your life looks IG-worthy from the outside - but you still feel like something is missing.
But you’re starting to realize that maybe, just maybe,
you deserve more.
More excitement, more passion, more connection -
with your life, in your relationship, and most importantly, with yourself.
You know there’s a different path for you, but figuring out how to actually GET YOURSELF TO take it has been the hard part.
You’re tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and disconnected - from your present life, in your relationship, and from the more fun & fulfilled version of yourself you know is somewhere in there.
You’ve tried everything to figure out how to feel better & move forward, but you're still overwhelmed, confused & conflicted - unsure how to get out of this place.
You’ve gotten so good at going through the motions, making sure everyone else is happy, and doing what’s expected - making it all LOOK GREAT.
You’ve been conditioned - by your culture & your childhood - to follow a certain pre-written plan, to put other's needs before yours, to eat your emotions, and to go for whatever is gonna get you the nice house, successful husband (or wife), and fancy vacations - even if you're miserable doing it.
But now you're tired of being the one who always figures shit out - the one who has all the answers, the one who always seems to sacrifice themselves & their needs.
Deep down, you know it’s time for a RESET.
I'M READY TO RESET
As a woman of color, working with Tanya felt deeply empowering. Her personalized coaching was so direct but empathetic at the same time. She helped me rediscover my inner strength and find the courage to stand up for myself while navigating a very difficult life transition.
Since working with Tanya I left a toxic relationship, found new love, moved to a different country and changed careers - all of which felt impossible a few years ago.
- P.R.
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Success Stories
As a man, I only worked with male therapists before, so a female coach was new. But I met Tanya in person, and there was something like just she got it - she gets me. There's a comfort that I feel with her that helps me find feelings & thoughts that I would never go to on my own.
- C.C.
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You’re overwhelmed, carrying the weight of your life, responsibilities & relationships on your shoulders. It feels like no matter what you do, nothing changes. You’re tired of managing it all & trying to figure it out on your own.
YOU WANT TO MAKE A DECISION & are sick of living in limbo
You've been wanting to make some changes in your life for a long time, but have been waiting for the 'right time' and the 'right way' - and somehow they never seem to come. You've tried all the things - the books, podcasts, talking to friends - & you still feel stuck. You're tired of living in limbo, and really need some help moving forward.
YOU'RE READY TO LIVE THE LIFE THAT YOU'VE BEEN WANTING FOR SO LONG.
You know there's more out here for you - and you're ready to see what getting it actually feels like. You're tired of feeling disconnected from yourself - you're successful, smart & have your shit together, so why do you feel unfulfilled & somewhat empty. Life is moving, and yours looks good from the outside, but inside you know that you're ready to let go & level up.
YOU'RE TIRED OF ALWAYS PRIORITIZING OTHERS OVER YOURSELF
Whether it’s constantly saying 'yes' when you really want to say 'no', sacrificing your needs to try to please your opinionated family, or giving in to the influence of expectations from others, are causing way too much overwhelm. You’re tired of trying to live up to everyone else’s version of your life, but you’re not sure how to break free.
YOU'RE READY FOR A REAL CHANGE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
You’ve been doing the work, but the connection you crave still isn’t there. You’re tired of repeating the same patterns, having the same arguments, and feeling like you’re not truly seen or understood. It’s time for a real shift, whether it’s redefining your current relationship or figuring out what’s next.
YOU'RE TIRED OF HOLDING IT ALL DOWN
Does This Sound Like You?
READY FOR MY RESET
THe 7C STRATEGY
Know what you want & what’s truly holding you back
Explore new ideas, possibilities, behaviors & perspectives.
get clear on whatYOU WANT
ACCURATELY DIAGNOSE WHAT'S MISSING
take consistent steps towards what's best for you
TRUST yourself & create the outcomes you want in your life...forever
Find the strength to take bold action (even when it's new or uncomfortable)
Trust yourself as you navigate the journey.
Stay aligned, accountable & taking action toward your goals.
Express yourself clearly, cleanly & effectively, implementing boundaries as needed
The result of considering the above Cs:
Implement your learnings & create intentional, meaningful, aligned change.
It's hard to TRUST your own truth when you've spent so long living for other people's expectations.
Reset is built around the 7C strategy - a powerful, FLUID framework THAT helps you stop auto-reacting & START INTENTIONALLY TAKING ACTION IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE
COURAGE
CONFIDENCE
CLARITY
CURIOSITY
COMMITMENT
COMMUNICATION
CHANGE
You’ll finally ditch the habit of living for everyone else’s approval and start showing up for you - without the guilt or hesitation.
DO WHAT ACTUALLY LIGHTS YOU UP
You’ll uncover the thoughts and patterns holding you back, break the cycle, and finally start living the version of life that feels passionate and powerful.
TRUST YOURSELF AS THE FIRST & LAST VOICE
No more waiting for your mom, your friends, or anyone else to validate your choices. You’ll start trusting your gut & making decisions confidently - without second-guessing yourself or feeling guilty.
You’ve been stuck on autopilot for too long - it's time to connect with the new you, chase those dreams again & bring yourself back to life.
MAKE BOLD MOVES
No more overthinking or anxiety. You’ll make clear, bold decisions moving forward from confidence & your truth, without a bunch of worrying about what other people are going to think.
CREATE A LIFE THAT FEELS AS GOOD AS IT LOOKS
Forget about keeping up appearances. You’ll finally live a life that feels just as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
feel more peace, live more free & improve your relationships -
starting with the one you have with yourself.
i want this life
I thought life was good before but I feel 10x better now and so much more in control of who I am and what I need to do. Working with Tanya was worth every penny! I trusted her completely and got the best guidance a Coach could provide. Sometimes it wasn't easy to hear but its exactly what I needed. I'm so grateful for her insight and encourage anyone looking for a Coach to work with her. Trust me, this is coming from a hard headed New Yorker! Thank you Tanya! I appreciate you more than you will ever know!
V.G.
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I was lost, no sure where the light was in my story. I was struggling in my marriage, I was hurt, depressed & angry. I tried traditional therapy and it wasn't for me - I knew I had to try something different.
Coaching with Tanya is like coaching with someone I've known my entire life and can still have objective views on everything. It's helped me in ways I didn't expect.
I learned myself again. Who I am, who I'm becoming, more aware of my emotions (learning my emotional regulation), I'm happier and can smile and can breathe. I'm taking steps forward in my life and moving on and looking foward to being completely free.
S.T.
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RESET IS A PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING EXPERIENCE.
We build you a
PERSONALIZED ROADMAP
that allows you to
FIND THE CLARITY, BUILD THE CONFIDENCE & GET THE SUPPORT you need to MAKE THE CHANGES you want.
You feel stuck in your relationship or life, constantly second-guessing your choices, and you’re tired of feeling like you’re just going through the motions.
You’ve been checking all the boxes, succeeding on the outside, but deep down, you feel disconnected and unfulfilled —and you’re ready to change that.
You’re done living for other people’s expectations, whether it’s your partner, your family, your culture, or society - you want to finally live life on your own terms.
is RESET RIGHT FOR YOU?
You’ve been struggling with indecision about whether to stay in your relationship or move on, and you’re ready to find clarity and peace of mind.
You’ve lost touch with who you really are and what truly lights you up - and you’re ready to reconnect with yourself and your purpose.
You’re ready to break free from the patterns that aren't working for you - whether they’re cultural, from family, or personal habits - and build a life & relationship that feel good to you.
- 1 x 90-min RESET Deep-Dive Intake + Interview Session
- 10 Private Sessions: 60-min sessions designed to dive deep into what’s keeping you stuck and create actionable steps to move forward
- Thought Work: You’ll get tools and strategies to rewire your mindset, break unhelpful patterns, and shift how you approach your life and relationships
- 7C Strategy: We'll use the 7C framework to guide you through finding clarity, confidence, and the courage to make bold decisions
- Personalized Action Plans: After each session, you’ll leave with clear, achievable steps to keep you moving in the right direction
THE LOGISTICS
let's talk about your resEt
We work together in a
3 or 6 month coaching relationship, that is tailored to your specific story, your UNIQUE needs & your PERSONAL goals.
Pay in Full & Payment Plan Options Available
3-month INVESTMENT
$2400
- 1 x 90-min RESET Deep-Dive Intake + Interview Session
- 20 Private Sessions: 60-min sessions designed to dive deep into what’s keeping you stuck & create actionable steps to move forward, with enough time to actually integrate what you're learning into your life & adjust where necessary
- Thought Work: You’ll get tools and strategies to rewire your mindset, break unhelpful patterns, and shift how you approach your life and relationships.
- 7C Strategy: We'll use the 7C framework to guide you through finding clarity, confidence, and the courage to make bold decisions.
- Personalized Action Plans: After each session, you’ll leave with clear, achievable steps to keep you moving in the right direction.
- Access to REWIRED Positive Intelligence Program: Full access to my REWIRED program to help you identify your patterns, strengthen your mental & emotional fitness and reframe challenges (this is a game changer)
- Complimentary access to any workshops/classes during 6 months in program
Pay in Full & Payment Plan Options Available
6-month INVESTMENT
$4000
let's talk about YOUR RESET
Set Boundaries Without Guilt – Let go of second-guessing yourself or feeling guilt about your choices & start making decisions more confidently, without feeling like you have to get everyone else’s approval
Know Exactly What You Want – Feel more at ease with yourself, more connected & excited about what’s next, even if you're not sure exactly how you're going to get there. You'll trust your choices and you'll trust the journey.
Feel More Secure in Your Relationships – Whether you stay, go, or start fresh, you’ll create a relationship dynamic that actually feels safe and aligned.
Heal from the Past – Process the pain, betrayal, or doubts that have been weighing you down and start feeling lighter and more at peace.
Break Free from Old Patterns – Identify and shift the cycles that keep you stuck so you can finally move forward.
Trust Yourself Again – No more second-guessing. Gain clarity and confidence in your decisions, whether it’s about your relationship or your next chapter.
Results
after your RESET
For years, I’ve helped individuals and couples break free from the expectations and "shoulds" that keep them stuck. Most of us live lives that look good on paper but don’t feel fulfilling on the inside.
As the daughter of Indian immigrants, I know exactly what it’s like to carry the weight of cultural expectations and the pressure to follow a path that makes everyone else proud. I asserted my independent choices early - choosing interracial relationships and a career in luxury fashion - but it wasn’t easy.
Hey, I'm Tanya!
and i've definitely been where you are.
MORE ABOUT MY JOURNEY
I know what it’s like to check all the boxes and still feel like something’s missing inside. I’ve been there - feeling ashamed when people say, “I wish I had your life" because you're actually really unhappy & unfulfilled -and you feel guilty for feeling that way.
I went through years of mental illness, treatment & therapy - and had to learn to trust myself, advocate for what I truly wanted, and honor my own desires, even when they went against other people's opinions or expectations.
Since then, I’ve had to RESET in my life many times - through divorce, infidelity, becoming a single mother, losing my multi-6-figure job, re-partnering & having another baby at 39, moving across the country, and a complete career change. I’ve learned how to make decisions that align with me, no matter what anyone else thinks.
Now, my mission is to help you do the same. I’ll guide you through your own RESET so you can create a life and relationships that feel as good on the inside as they look on the outside.
IT'S TIME TO CHOOSE YOU.
RESET is your chance to step into a life that’s yours, fully and unapologetically.
We start from wherever you are RIGHT NOW and work towards WHEREVER YOU'D LOVE TO GO.
Ready to start making choices that feel right, trusting yourself every step of the way?
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR RESET
You’ve spent long enough living by the rules, feeling stuck, and putting aside the life / love / career / relationships you really want .
If you’re ready to reconnect with who you are and what you really want, then let’s begin.
Your
Questions,
Answered...
Therapy is transformative for helping you process the past. Coaching helps you take action in the present & build the future you actually want.
I’ve done both. I’ve been in therapy, I’ve worked with coaches, and I know firsthand how they serve different needs.
✔ Coaching is for when you’re ready to shift patterns, gain clarity, and actually something different, now. We work on confidence, boundaries, relationships, and the real-life steps to move forward.
✔ Therapy is for deeper healing—things like trauma, severe anxiety, or depression. If you're dealing with something clinical or unresolved past wounds, therapy might be the better fit.
Of course - RESET isn’t just about your love life - it’s about your WHOLE life.
Your patterns, your past, your beliefs, your confidence, your clarity. The work we do here applies to every area of your life, whether you’re single, dating, married, divorced, or just trying to figure it all out.
Can RESET help my marriage if my partner doesn’t want to do couples coaching?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
Absolutely. Change starts with you.
I’ve seen time and time again that when one person shifts, the whole relationship shifts. So even if your partner isn’t on board yet, doing this work for yourself can have a massive impact.
And if nothing changes? You’ll have the clarity to know exactly what you want and deserve moving forward.
DO YOU WORK WITH WOMEN, MEN & ALL RACES & GENDER IDENTITIES?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
Yes! RESET is for anyone ready to do the work, regardless of race, ethnicity or gender identity.
Whether you're looking to heal, grow, or redefine your relationships (with yourself or others), this program is designed to meet you where you are.
HOW WILL I KNOW IF THE COACHING IS WORKING?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
You’ll know RESET is working when things that used to feel overwhelming - like setting boundaries, speaking up for yourself, or making a decision without overthinking - start feeling easier.
✔ You’re not second-guessing yourself as much.
✔ You’re feeling clearer, more confident, and more in control of your choices.
✔ You’re seeing real shifts in how you show up in your relationships - with yourself & others.
But like everything in life - you get out of coaching the results of the effort & energy you put in.
All sessions are held virtually & confidentially via video call, so you can join from anywhere in the world. I work with clients across multiple countries & time zones, and offer flexible scheduling options to accommodate different locations. Whether you're in the same home, different cities, or even different countries, we make it work.
I’ve been where you are - stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure of what’s next, so I empathize with your experience, WHILE I guide you to what I know is possible for you.
Beyond my personal experience, I’m a Certified Life and Relationship coach with professional training from:
✔ The Gottman Institute (evidence-based relationship work)
✔ Relational Life Institute (deep interpersonal coaching)
✔ Positive Intelligence (mental fitness + mindset coaching)
I combine lived experience with proven strategies to help you create meaningful, lasting change.
RESET is an investment in you - your clarity, confidence, and the life you actually want to be living.
✔ 3-month or 6-month coaching options to fit your needs
✔ Deep, tailored support with real strategies to create lasting change
✔ A space to finally figure out what’s really keeping you stuck - and how to move forward
I don’t take insurance, but do offer flexible payment plans. My clients (and myself!) find that investing in coaching has been life-changing in ways therapy or self-help books haven’t been.
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