culturally-focused individual & couples coaching for your unique story.
YOUR HAPPIEr, MORE PEACEFUL RELATIONSHIP
STARTS HERE.
Not repetitive arguments or silent disconnection for days
Not to feel like roommates where all the romance has disappeared.
You want to feel truly appreciated, considered & safe - for your connection to flow naturally, for difficult talks to be productive & for the two of you to feel like you're on the same team, working towards a joint future that considers who you BOTH are, and what you BOTH want.
With Yourself.
With Your Partner.
For Right Now & for Future Generations.
It’s time to reimagine your relationships.
TAKE THE NEXT STEP
WHERE LOVE MEETS LEGACY, REMIXED.
A life where you’re not constantly just chasing achievements or other people's approval, only to feel unfulfilled
A self-trust that helps you make better choices that consider YOUR best interests
You want to let go of guilt, pressure, and the weight of everyone else’s expectations. To live a life where inner peace feels possible, your decisions reflect your values, and you finally feel grounded in who you are - so you can build the life & love YOU want.
YOU WANT A MARRIAGE THAT FEELS GREAT.
You want TO
feel free.
COUPLES...
INDIVIDUALS...
Client Love
IT STARTS WITH YOU.
Every relationship you have - with your partner, your family, your friends or your team at work- stems from the one relationship that’s often prioritized last -
the one you have with YOU.
When your relationship with yourself is unresolved, it shows up everywhere else.
You find yourself stuck in cycles, reacting to triggers, and operating from places you’ve never truly explored or healed.
Here, we do the work to change that.
Whether it's through individual coaching in my private coaching program, RESET or a hybrid of solo & couples sessions in my transformative program, RENAISSANCE, you’ll find the clarity, confidence & tools to
Rewrite your Relationship Stories.
- You’re tired of feeling like you’re fighting against each other instead of for each other.
- The same issues keep coming up, no matter how many times you think you’ve resolved them
- You feel like you’re walking on eggshells around each other; you’re emotionally exhausted, and don’t know how to reconnect
- You’ve been betrayed, and trust feels like it’s hanging by a thread - you want to feel safe again
- You want the relationship you dreamed of - to match the reality you’re living
- Your family or cultural expectations (or your partner’s family’s influence) keep disrupting the peace in your relationship
- You feel stuck in your life - like something has to change, but you’re not sure what
- You’re overwhelmed by trying to meet everyone else’s expectations and have lost yourself in the process & want to find the YOU that you are right now
- You’re healing from past heartbreak, betrayal, or unhealthy patterns, and you want to trust again - yourself & others
- You’re questioning whether to stay or leave your relationship and need clarity to make a decision
- You’re tired of repeating the same cycles in relationships and are ready to break the pattern
- You’ve been living on autopilot, checking all the boxes, but still feel like something is missing - and you’re ready to find fulfillment & live life on your terms.
FOR COUPLES
FOR INDIVIDUALS
Coaching designed to create the RELATIONSHIPS YOU WANT - by HEALING the relationships you currently have
with yourself, and each other.
Culturally-focused Coaching
No one hands us a guidebook for life or love.
personalIZED COACHING,
for your VERY personal story...
THAT'S WHY I DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY.
We honor the parts of your story that matter.
Help you let go of what’s holding you back.
And build a way forward that actually works, FOR YOU.
Because your story is different.
And how you grew up matters.
Your experiences & cultural values shape who you are - & how you love.
The truth?
Most advice out there doesn't consider those nuances, leaving you feeling unseen & like it doesn’t even apply to you.
And let’s be real - a one-size-fits-all approach isn’t going to work for your story.
STREET CRED
Let me keep it real.
IT TOOK ME A MINUTE TO FIgure life & love out, too
Welcome, I'm Tanya!
Not too long ago, I was living what looked like the dream on the outside - a multi-6-figure job as a luxury fashion exec, a "happy" marriage to a handsome man, a beautiful home in Brooklyn (with a backyard!) & a super cute, smart kid.
But on the inside? I was falling apart.
I wasn’t happy anymore in my career. I wasn’t happy anymore in my relationship. And because I was allowing myself to stay stuck (because I should be grateful for all the 'success', right?) - I was pretty frustrated & disappointed with myself.
The truth is, I had been on a personal growth journey for YEARS - since struggling with mental illness & depression in my teens & early twenties - and I KNEW I was stuck.
And now? I help individuals & couples like you do the same.
So when it all came crashing down - I lost my job & my ex-husband walked out unannounced -all within 6 weeks - I leaned into self-trust, hired coaches to help me, and made a choice - to stop chasing what "looked right” and start creating what FEELS RIGHT.
Whether you’re -
stuck trying to revive a disconnected relationship, struggling to rebuild trust within yourself or with your partner, or feeling conflicted figuring out what’s next in your life -
we take an honest look at the unique challenges you’re facing - and build a plan that works for YOU.
Success Story
- K.R.
RENAISSANCE PROGRAM
Four years into our marriage, we were drowning & ready to separate. Tanya helped us see & say the things we couldn’t on our own. Solo sessions gave us the space to process what was hard to admit, and now we’re able to talk through the tough stuff without it turning into a fight. We finally feel like a team, but still like individual people. We can be free in front of each other again.
RENAISSANCE is a 6-month coaching program designed for couples who want to stay together, but feel stuck on HOW. Using my proven 3-step process, we’ll uncover what’s not working, improve communication & re-lay a foundation built on true partnership & shared values - so you can be an example of a healthier, happier marriage for your kids (and theirs).
RENAISSANCE
RESET
RESET is a 6-month life and relationship coaching journey designed for individuals who are ready to get unstuck, grow, and feel free. Whether you're healing from past pain, need to break unhealthy patterns, or if you're having a hard time deciding whether to stay in your relationship - or go, in RESET, we work to create the clarity, confidence & action plan you need for the life & relationship you want.
SERVICES
Here's how I can help...
for couples
for INDIVIDUALS
(PERSONALIZED LIFE COACHING REGARDLESS OF RELATIONSHIP STATUS)
(A TRANSFORMATIVE EXPERIENCE OF BOTH SOLO & COUPLES RELATIONSHIP COACHING)
The relationship you have with yourself.
The relationships that have shaped your story.
And the relationships you want to create moving forward.
THIS IS WHERE LOVE MEETS LEGACY - REMIXED.
where the old sh*t ends &YOUR
new story begins.
For individuals & couples ready to break the rules you’ve inherited, and rewrite your relationship story, with yourself - and anyone else that matters.
THIS IS WHERE YOU repair, redefine & rebuild.
LOVE. LIFE. LEGACY.
REdefined.
A NEW WAY FORWARD
Break old patterns.
Build new stories.
From breaking free of the past to creating a future that fits, this is where you get to design a life and love that feel aligned, authentic & amazing.
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